How do you define Success? A friend and I were having a discussion and they asked me that question. I felt it was a fairly easy question and my response was, something to the tune of , ” Success is when you have done your best!” Which to that they said, “How do you define best?” I suddenly wasn’t feeling as confident about my answers. I should have expected this, for this friend has a way of making me think.
The response that came to me was ,” Best is when you have done your best!” Yes, that wasn’t exactly the BEST answer.
I thought more about the question and tried to figure out how I really do define success and best ? How do I know if I have done my best? What would your answer be?
I was reminded today of a scene from a movie that I really like! It is called Fighting the Giants and there is a clip in it about doing your best. I couldn’t help but think of the conversation that I had had with my friend. It is a scene in where the star Football player does a death crawl. No, this isn’t just a football movie, it really is so much more! Trust me, I am not a football fan at all! Not to offend any Football fans, but it just puts me to sleep.
Here is the clip that I am talking about. Listen to the message in it. This is just one of many positive messages in this movie. I think it is very good and hope you do as well! How is your attitude? Are you really giving it your Best?
Food for thought
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Have you seen the movie?
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Yes but it’s been a couple years or so
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I have seen it a couple times. It does make you think.
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Am I doing all I can do to grow my business or am I allowing fear and disappointment to cloud my momentum? I have a goal that am close to meeting. I thought I had what I needed to reach that goal but something happened and what I thought was going to happened didn’t.
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I am sorry but don’t give up on your goal! Maybe it’s just meant to happen a different way. Perhaps I was supposed to do this post today for you. 🙂
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That’s the thing I am trying to remember after all I did pray that God would bring me the right people- that doesn’t mean I get to sit back and do nothing I am still to do my part and leave the rest to him (that’s the hard part)
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Becky – Do not give up an any goal!
I had a goal to run a Marathon once, but I started running into knee problems when my training runs were exceeding 20km (Marathon = 42km). I consulted a sports doctor who determined that I had a leg length discrepancy, and my hip had dropped as a way of compensating for it… hence the problem. I had to either abandon my goal, or re-evaluate my schedule and timing. I did not want to abandon my goal and so was fitted for orthotics which would help to compensate for the leg length discrepancy… but they had to be broken in gradually so I deferred my training by a few months,but stayed focused on my goal. A few months later, another knee problem! I was getting “needle like” shooting pain through my right knee (on the shorter leg). It turned out that I needed surgery to clean up some torn ligaments, or I could stop running. Six months later, I completed my first Marathon!
Please don’t ever lose sight of your goals. Sure you may have to reschedule. Sure things are going to happen which may be a challenge, but stay focused on what you want to do. You deserve the absolute best that you can give yourself… and just imagine the pleasure of achieving your goal! Keep smiling, and stay positive!
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Later last night I was on a Zoom training meeting and they pretty much said the same thing. Thanks for the encouragement.
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Then assume that majority rules! Refocus if necessary, but never lose sight of your goal! 🙂
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Yes this rarely happens, but I have to say that I agree with Colin. Don’t give up! 🙂
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Wow! 6 months later you ran a marathon! I have to be nice and say that is impressive! Especially when the only time I run is if I am running from something. 🙂
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oops accidentally erased the It made think
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I love this post! Since the feeling of how we know we have done our best is internal, it is difficult to describe. I would say that somehow, I just know that I can do no more. I have given it everything I can. And I love this movie!
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Thanks for your comment!
You are right it is an internal thing.
Posting this made me want to see the movie again. 🙂 Get out the popcorn 🙂
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Yey! I love this amazing clip.
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I am trying to look at success not so much in the accomplishments I am able to achieve or how good my attitude is. Success, in my life, is in my heart and following the path that God has laid out for me. My success may be something no one on this side of death will ever see or measure. If I try to measure myself and my success by earth’s standards, I will always come up short, but by the grace of God, He will help me to succeed in large and small victories that matter to Him. I am not where I should be on many of my days, but thankfully, I am not where I was.
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<3!
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I hope this made sense. I am weary. I don’t mean to sound preachy, either.
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Love ya dear!
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Sometimes our best is not enough. When I left my previous relationship after 8 years, I know I had done my best to make things work. There was nothing I could do to make things better and I didn’t even like the man anymore. I have no regrets, no thoughts of ‘If only’, or ‘What if’ as I’d done all that, and he didn’t want it. His loss.
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I am sorry, but glad that you have no regrets! You are right sometimes we do all that we can do and we have to rest in that knowledge. Glad you were able to “rest”.
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Of course, we can’t always do our best, because by definition it is better than whatever we do most of the time! Usually I would define success as accomplishing what I set out to do — that is, provided I haven’t managed to mess up anything else while I was about it 🙂
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