In life we all go through a lot of things that can cause us to feel anger, bitterness and guilt. There are things that happen to us and to our loved ones that we cannot control. There is something though that we can control. We can control how we let ourselves be affected by what happened. We alone can make the choice to decide whether to hold onto the negative emotions or to let them go.
I have met many people throughout life and heard their stories. Stories about their joys, but also stories of their struggles. Stories of things that had brought them pain. What has stood out to me the most as I listened, was their attitude when sharing the painful things. How with some, no matter how sad their story may be, a gentle, tender spirit shined through their words. There was an inner joy, not based on past or present circumstances. An inner joy because they had made the decision to shine. They chose to not carry around the heavy load of bitterness, anger or guilt. They had let it go. I could see the softness in their eyes and yes, some tears they may shed when sharing, but the beauty of peace still radiated from them.
I heard a story on the radio that touched my heart and it made me realize again how important your attitude is. It also showed how once again we really can learn from children.
A Mom was sharing the story about how her husband had left her and her 5 year old son and then ended up in jail, which meant no child support. She had to move her and her son into an old camper to live. One day she went to the school to pick him up and she overheard him talking to his new friends. They asked him where he lived and he told them in a camper. The Mom cringed in shame, embarrassed for her son. Then one child said to her son that he bets he wishes that he had a home to live in. The Mom again felt her heart ache as she waited for his answer. Than she cried at his response. Her son replied that he already has a home because his Mommy loves him and that’s what makes a home!
I want to be like that precious little boy, don’t you?
Every year Autumn shows us a visual reminder of the beauty that can be found in letting go. Enjoy this short video clip.
thank you sharing and writing this Carolyn, it made my spirit calmer, that boy was practising gratefulness, he was a testament of his mother’s love and sacrifice.
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You are very welcome. When I heard that story I just had to share it. Glad it calmed your spirit and yes he definitely is a testament to his Mother’s love!
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such a good narrative from you Carolyn, made the story so much sweeter and meaningful.
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Good Post Carolyn. 🙂
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Thanks Colin! You are a very good example of the benefits of a great attitude . 🙂
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What a beautiful story!
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🙂 🙂
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It is all choices! 🙂
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Yes. 🙂
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So sweet. I always say the thing I like best about my home is who I share it with ❤️
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❤ ❤ 🙂
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Yes, houses can be replaced, family can’t. A good reminder.
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So true!
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Great post. Thank you for sharing this heartwarming tale.
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You are very welcome, glad you enjoyed it!
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I like your sentiments about “home”. I also like your music video of falling leaves. My wife and I are planning a trip to New England soon, to see the fall foliage, so this helps me get into the mood.
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Glad I could help you get into the mood for your trip to the New England states. What a beautiful trip that will be. Enjoy!
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The story certainly blessed me! I sometimes feel like I could have done more for my little boys, known more, been more… that’s about the time I have to take time out and go pray. When it comes to my kids I’ve always done my best. And there will always be an enemy that wants me to believe I didn’t. Good post!
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So glad that this spoke to your heart! We as parents are often making ourselves feel so guilty. I have been there, it’s so easy to do, for unfortunately we can’t be perfect! So lighten up on yourself, just like you said, know that you did your best! ❤
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it’s a heart touching story of your blog “Where Beauty is Found”described it so well.
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Thanks for visiting my blog and for your comment.. I am glad you enjoyed post. Feel free to browse around at other posts! Have a wonderful weekend!
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I really enjoyed reading your post. Thanks for sharing this information
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HI! You are very welcome.
Thank you for reading and I hope you enjoy other posts of mine on here as well.
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