My 120mph ride!

Yesterday was a first for something for me. I was behind the wheel of a car that went up to 120mph!! Yes, I am alive and well to write about it this morning.

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I can see the comments now, ” Are you crazy?? What were you thinking??” Let me explain, and Mom and Dad you can get your hands off the phone and take a breath!

My car’s speedometer said I was going 120mph, but believe me I wasn’t going over 35mph! I do have a witness, my teenager was in the car with me. They were busy laughing at our gauges  going wacky. I was busy wondering if someone that I couldn’t see was messing with the gauges. Wondered what may happen if I took my hands off the wheel, for at one time it said I was going 0mph and I was moving at the time. Yes, yesterday was apparently the day for me to do the impossible!

I started my drive out with a half tank of gas. Well during this short drive that I took I really was doing the impossible. For not only was I going 120mph, but according to my gas gauge I was doing it on Empty! Then 2 minutes later I had a full tank! Wouldn’t that be nice if we could go from an empty tank to a full one without having to stop at the gas station?

All this crazy stuff happened during a 10 minute drive and then when I took another short drive last night it was fine. I don’t know, maybe somehow I was driving in The Twilight Zone without knowing it.

Whatever the case may be, it reminded me of how things aren’t always how they appear. Reminded me of that often used quote, ” Don’t judge a book by its cover” You really don’t know about a person until you get to know them. That quiet child in the corner who never answered the questions correctly that the teacher asked, may be a storehouse of knowledge. May be wiser then their years, but they don’t do well being put on the spot.

That co-worker of yours who is always smiling and bragging about the trips she took to far away places and telling about going out in the evenings to fancy restaurants, may just be going to those places in her mind. Perhaps she lives alone and every night is eating a microwaved TV dinner. Eating alone once more as she watches about exotic places on TV.  Her smiles may hide a thousand tears behind them.

The facts are that we simply don’t know. Too often we pass judgement only on what we see. We see a foreclosure sign go up in the neighbor’s yard. We think about how they must have spent their money foolishly. That they brought this upon themselves. How do we know that a family member didn’t run into critical health problems and that their money went towards that?  Things aren’t always as they appear. We don’t always have the full story, but we draw conclusions anyway.

Next time you are tempted to judge based on what you see, remember how even speedometers can be deceiving! Take time to get to know the details and you may be happily surprised at what you find out.

That quiet child may shine out of someone taking notice of him and pulling him out of his shell. That co-worker may turn out to be a wonderful, fun friend after someone takes the time to befriend her. Your neighbors may appreciate a listening ear and some words of encouragement, instead of being talked about behind their backs. Last of all that book that doesn’t look or sound too exciting by its cover may just unlock your mind to some wonderful adventures! It may be the book that you can’t put down, even though its 2am.

Now back to my car. I do think that I am safe in the conclusion that there is no invisible person messing with the gauges of my car. That this car may need to be headed to the garage. Then again this is the same vehicle that has mailboxes, signs, and sides of buildings jumping out at them. So who knows, maybe something else is causing my gauges to go wacky? Hmmm….

 

“I Don’t Like You”

Don’t be scared off…. this title is not meant for any of my readers! I do like all of you! I have been known to say in jest to some friends, ” You are lucky I love ya, because….not feeling that other “L” word right now.” All meant in fun of course! It is usually said in response to a joke that has been played on me, or to some witty words that were thrown my way.

If you are a parent, I would bet that you have had times where you have not liked your children, right? I am not being mean, just honest. We love them with all our hearts and would take a bullet for them, BUT… there are those days where they may be a little hard to like. To be fair, I am sure that there are days that they don’t like us too much either. In fact I know there are. I am the mother of teenagers, need I say more?

But this isn’t a post about friendship or parenting, read on, and you will understand.

This past Saturday my lovely niece got married in a beautiful ceremony outdoors. The weather was perfect. They had written their own vows for their special day and my niece went first.

“We have had an argument that has lasted a couple days now, and as I write this I am not really liking you at the moment.”

Not the typical beginning to wedding vows. Was she being crazy starting her vows off like that?  No, she was being real and I loved it!

She brought out how she realized that even when things may not be the best between them, the love she had for him ran deep. How love is so much more than just a feeling.

A lot of us had tears in our eyes as we listened to them recite their vows, sharing their love for each other. Listening to them share some of  their strengths and weaknesses. Expressing how they wanted their marriage built on humility and gentleness. Hearing them sing a song to each other as they committed their love to each other. Seeing them symbolize their commitment with rings, but also in another way. They mixed their soil.

it was something new to me, but I liked it. He had soil from his grandparents farm and my niece had soil from her grandparents graves and they mixed them together. Symbolizing them bringing their pasts together and starting a new life.

I couldn’t be happier for this special couple and I wish them many joys and much love  in the years to come!

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20170603_195338 I think they are liking each other pretty much at this moment. 🙂

20170603_170115 I had to include a picture of the lovely Mother of the Bride (my sister) and her handsome sons as well! The question is, Which one of her sons will be the next to take the plunge? 🙂 I am feeling old! The one on the right was the ring bearer for our wedding. His dear sister, the bride, in the picture above was our flower girl! Plus the handsome guy on the left wasn’t even born yet! Where do the years go?

 

 

 

Tuesday’s Thoughts

Summer vacation has officially started for me! So on the first day, my alarm clock went off at typical time, for my sweet hubby had forgot to turn it off! That’s Okay, I did end up falling back asleep for a little. Then I got up, threw a load of laundry in and took a bike ride. The first day was a success I would say. I am now up writing these quotes as I wait to pick up my teens and their friends from the movies. Yes, summer has begun! Hope these quotes can make you feel like wearing a sunny, summer smile! I am smiling as I listen to Shania Twain right now, “From this Moment”. Love that song, just in case you were interested. 🙂

 

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The “Clever” Idea!

Hawaii was brought up in conversation this week-end, and that made me think of our 2 crazy characters. The fun 2 elves who make Santa pull out his hair at times. Santa needed a break, which is why Jinx and Jangle got sent to the lovely island of Hawaii. They didn’t mind. The nice warm climate was a welcome change to the North Pole!

If you have missed the introduction of Jinx and Jangle, here is a link to the first story. The Story of Jinx and Jangle. Now let us check in and see what trouble they are up to this time!

Jinx was looking out the window watching the rain fall. Didn’t look like they would be riding their bikes today. Oh well, he wasn’t going to let the rain spoil his day, he was sure that he could still have a great day. He was waiting on Jangle to finish making his delicious omelettes now.

As they were eating their breakfast, Jangle was working on a crossword puzzle. “What is a 4 letter word for clever?” “Well that is easy,” replied Jinx, ” It is my name… J..i..n..x..!” The look on Jangle’s face said it all. Sometimes no words were needed.

As the rain continued to fall, they both sat in their comfy recliners and started to read their favorite books. They were rather large books, for they had very pertinent information in them that they needed to know. These books were so full of valuable information that they would probably need to read them twice in order for all the details to sink in.

They wanted to get them finished before they went back to the North Pole in September. They knew that  when they went back there wouldn’t be much time for reading, they would be busy working for Santa again. Trying once more to be good enough to earn their own team of reindeer! They had a strong confident air about them that this time would be the magic charm. Santa would be so impressed, as well as all the other elves who had dared to laugh at them. They would see what Jinx and Jangle were truly capable of!

Soon Jinx and Jangle started to doze, the books were such heavy reading that they couldn’t keep their eyes open.  It was the cuckoo clock that woke them up. “Cuckoo!” it called as the clock struck 10.

“Hey, it stopped raining!” Jangle said as he noticed the sunlight streaming in the window. “Let’s go for a ride.” Jinx agreed and soon they were on their bikes and heading towards their favorite trail. The Kauai Bike Path, right along the shore. The beauty of the water added to the delight of the ride.

They never knew what they may see when riding. Sometimes beautiful birds flew right in front of them. At times a pretty seashell would grab their attention while riding by and they would stop to pick it up. They had made quite a nice collection so far to take back with them to the North Pole. They wanted mementos to help be a remember of  their wonderful time in Hawaii.

Jangle was lost in thought and almost ran right into Jinx as he didn’t notice that he had stopped! “Next time that you are going to suddenly stop, blow your horn! Santa put that horn on there for you to warn people with you know. It is a ” Look out, I am coming!” horn.”  ” Well if you would have been paying attention to where you were going, you would have noticed that I stopped! Anyway look at what I found.” Jinx held up a nice shiny hand held mirror.

“What do you want that for? We have mirrors at the house.”  ” I have an idea,” said Jinx, “Let’s go home, and I will show you!” They turned around to head home. When they arrived home Jinx went into the kitchen to find some rubber bands and duck tape. Jangle was looking at him very curiously. He was  wondering what was going on in that brain of his now.

“Done!” announced Jinx proudly, as he showed Jangle the finished product. “Well I have to say that was a pretty clever idea, it should come in handy! Can you put one on mine to?” “Sure, I am always glad to help, all you need to do is ask”, said Jinx.

Jinx had fastened the mirror to the handlebars of his bike so that he could see what was behind him. “Now I will see you, before you crash into me Jangle!”

Jinx was feeling quite smart as he looked into the mirror and said, ” Mirror, Mirror on the bike, who is the most clever…” CRASH! The rubber band snapped, the duck tape came loose and the mirror shattered on the pavement.

“On second thought, I really don’t need a mirror!”, said Jangle,  as he made his way into the house trying to control his laughter.

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Daily Prompt: Imaginary

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Who knows,  they could be as nice as E.T. Remember him? I thought he was so cute when I saw him in the movie. I wanted to be the little boy who hid him in his room.  Tried to blend “E.T.” in with his stuffed animals. I definitely had enough stuffed animals as a child, I could have hid him well.

Or they could be like “Alf”! Your life would never be boring with him around! Just make sure you hide the cat! We bought that series on DVD, so that our kids  could enjoy it. I am pretty sure that they were secretly wishing that “Alf” would be real and show up at our door.

I wouldn’t hold my breath as you gaze into the sky watching for a spaceship to land. But you never know! Who is to say that someday “E.T.” or “”Alf” won’t show up at your door bringing all their friends with them!

Perhaps they will take you for a ride in their spaceship! Just think of the exciting blog post you could write then. Any case of Writer’s Block would be cured! You may have a problem with some people thinking you are delusional, but for the ones that think that, there is an easy cure. Just send your new friends their direction!

 

 

Friday’s Super Short Stories

As a follow up from yesterday’s post, A Rainbow of Love,  I want to say what happened when I told my little girl at work that I wouldn’t be her teacher anymore.

She scrunched up her little face as her eyes teared up and I heard her tiny voice say, “But why?” I tried to explain, only to get another, ” But why?”, and my heart was feeling squeezed. Then she said the words that made me melt. ” Will you still be my friend?” I hugged her so tight and gave her a kiss, as I told her that I will always be her friend.

Yes, today at work will have its hard moments, but we are going to try to make it a wonderful day as well. Yesterday a co-worker ordered pizza for everyone. Today I am bringing in drinks. No worries… no alcohol.:) Frappes, Iced coffees, Sweet teas…. We are going to celebrate the end of something wonderful, as we move forward to new beginnings!

Thanks to all of you  dear readers who have had sweet thoughts for me over this time! I appreciate it and I do know that on Monday I will be smiling for there will be no alarm to wake me up! 🙂  Now onto Friday’s Super Short Stories, after a not so super short introduction!

The love of a child….nothing compares!

A toast to friendship….a blessed gift!

One tissue… a pack of tissues… tears are healing, right?

 

A Rainbow of Love

Do you have a tissue nearby? I want to share a heart tugging moment. You probably won’t need a tissue, but I may today.

As I shared before, the day care I work at is closing. Tomorrow is the last day. We have not said much to the younger children. Hard to explain things like that to a 2 year old. Yesterday though my co-worker had one of the little ones on her lap and she told her how she is sorry but she won’t be her teacher anymore. The little girl’s eyes got big and she said, “Why?” Tears started to come and there were more “whys” as that is the favorite question of 2 year olds! She wanted to know where she was going to “live”. It made me realize how these kids do think of the day care like a home, for they spend long days there.  She hugged my co-worker. She then took some deep breaths and a light came to her eyes,  as she smiled. “I’ll be okay, Miss. Carolyn will be my teacher still!”

My co-worker said she couldn’t answer her,  she just gave her another hug as the girl went off to happily play. Oh what kids do to your heart! I know she will be Okay, she will fall in love with another teacher and that teacher will love her, but as of right now, stay tuned. Stay tuned as I have to explain to her that I am leaving as well.

To give you a smile now, this little girl was sitting on my lap later and telling me about her Slip and Slide at home and how she wants to go on it. She invited me to come take a ride on it too. You swim right into the shark’s mouth!  But she said I would need to wear a bathing suit and mine would have to  be bigger then hers! She then went into talking about her bed and how it is a rainbow bed. I said how that sounded very cool! She told me that I should ask my Mommy to make me one!

I just love how a 2 year old thinks. It seemed perfectly reasonable to her for me to ask my Mommy to make me a rainbow bed, why not? This wasn’t the first thing that I was told to ask my Mommy about.

This same girl is the one who turned 2 not long ago and her Mom bought cupcakes to share with the class.  My co-worker, her other teacher, turned 21 recently. When the little girl found out it was her birthday, she asked her “Where are the cupcakes?” My friend said that she is sorry but she didn’t bring any. The girl looked concerned, ” Tell your Mommy to bring you some cupcakes!”  We had to laugh, such a innocent request. The little ones were glad to find out that I brought cupcakes in to share for my co-worker’s birthday. What is a birthday without cupcakes! 🙂

The Day Care may be closing and we may all be going in different directions, but the words that these little ones have told me over the years will stay.
They have a put a rainbow in my heart!

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